Handcuffs are accessories that can really spice up things in your bedroom. Why are they so popular? Just because it’s the simplest way to give up control and open yourself to a sense of true freedom from responsibility, stress, and tons of tasks you deal with every day. The same is true for people who are more passive in their life, since shackling their partner’s hands in handcuffs helps them experience a dominant role. Handcuffs are an awesome method to explore your other side of personality, discover your fantasies, and heighten the sensations.
In this article, we will explore the top five sex positions with handcuffs to add excitement and variety to your interaction with a partner.
1. Missionary Position with Handcuffs
The person in the receiving role lies on the back, placing hands overhead. A dominant person shackles the sub’s hands in cuffs and gets many possibilities for what is coming next. A person in control can practice a dirty talk, stimulate erogenous zones, such as a neck, ears, nipples, or incorporate wax and ice play, or even use a blindfold to heighten other sub’s senses.
This kinky missionary position allows partners to be in close contact with each other’s bodies and experience the intimacy of being face-to-face. They have deep eye contact that establishes a strong emotional connection, and they can practice intense kissing. The submissive partner’s position with cuffed hands overhead allows exposing breast that contributes to the overall sexy view and arousal, and provides a dominant partner with a chance for a breast play such as stimulation of nipples, kissing, slight biting and licking.
The missionary position allows changing the position of the legs, which helps to experiment with various angles and depth of penetration. The partner with hands cuffed overhead can wrap their legs around their dominant's waist or lift them higher to rest on their partner's shoulders. Literally, this position provides partners with a perfect sense of give and take.
2. Sitting on the Face of a Cuffed Partner
Sitting on the face, also known as face-sitting and queening, allows a dominant partner to experience direct oral stimulation featuring pleasant licks from a submissive partner. It’s a perfect way to add variety for your oral sex practices.
The bottom or submissive partner lies on the back. The dominant partner cuffs the sub’s hands overhead and place their body in a way to allow the submissive partner to lick their pussy. This position can be used as a part of foreplay to tease the sub and not actually contact their mouth until they beg for it. The person on top can use their hands and other body parts to express their dominant role and add intense stimulation. The top can also incorporate vibrators and other sex gear to make their experience more enjoyable.
The person sitting on the face can experience a perfect sense of control and dominance, while the restrained partner can enjoy the heightened senses of being restricted and controlled. This position requires a high level of trust and attention to safety. The positioning should be comfortable enough for both partners, allowing breaks if necessary. The person on top must be mindful of their partner's ability to breathe. The system of checks and signals is a must-have.
3. Hands behind Ankles
This position is also known as hog-tie. The bottom person lies down with their belly on the bed or any other surface suitable for sex play. They should bend their legs up and reach back for their feet. The dominant person attaches handcuffs around the sub’s wrists in a way that hands are placed behind their ankles.
This position exposes the genitals and erogenous zones, making them accessible for various types of oral and manual stimulation, as well as playing with toys. Additionally, the person on top can use ice cubes or warm breath on exposed skin to create intense contrasts in sensation. This position also pairs well with blindfolds and earplugs to increase anticipation and arousal.
For a bottom person, being bound in this way emphasizes the sense of vulnerability and submission. The restricted movement, stretching and increased blood flow to the pelvis provide heighten physical sensations and arousal. To try this position, you should ensure that your partner is flexible enough to feel comfortable. It’s a good idea to stretch their body beforehand and use soft restraints.
4. Standing Position with Handcuffs
The bottom partner, standing with their hands cuffed, can have their body easily accessed by their dominant partner. This position provides various forms of stimulation such as kissing on the lips, nibbling earlobes, playing with breasts, whispering dirty words and many other ways to arouse your partner with touch and breath.
To use this position, you need to select a place with a hook or secure point on the wall where you can fix your partner’s hands above their head with wrist cuffs. The sex might not be perfect, however the standing position allows more opportunities for teasing and playing. The person in control can incorporate blindfolds to let the bottom partner guess what’s going next, or nipple clamps to intensify the arousal. The dominant partner can caress the sub with their wet kisses and tongue stimulation, use a massage candle, or ice cubes. The mission of the dominant is to amplify the desire and let it grow. This session will last until the cuffed person begs for sex with a dominant, at which point they give subs what they want.
5. Spread-Eagle
This is the classic position for incorporating handcuffs. The bottom person lies on their back with arms and legs spread and cuffed to the bedposts. In this position, the sub provides full exposure and access to their body for teasing and various stimulation. They can experience heightened physical sensations and increased sensitivity due to their restricted movement and increased reaction to touch. The best way to try this position is to select a bed with sturdy bedposts or a specially designed bondage frame.
The bottom person should lie on their back with arms and legs spread wide apart. The dominant person secures wrist and ankle cuffs to the bedposts. The restraints should be tight enough to hold the partner in place, but not too tight to cause discomfort.
The dominant person can try various techniques with the cuffed person such as wet and intense kissing, touching, oral sex. Regarding stimulations, this position fits well for temperature play with candles or ice, using feathers and blindfolds, dildos and vibrators.
Being restrained in the spread-eagle position creates a strong sense of vulnerability and submission. This can be highly arousing for both partners, particularly those who enjoy power dynamics and the feeling of giving up control. The spread-eagle position also offers a high level of intimacy and connection, deep eye contact and verbal communication.
Recap
Handcuffs can help you put off your everyday role and try on a new one. There are many ways how you can incorporate handcuffs into your intimate life. You can try kinky missionary position, hog-tie, sitting on the face, standing position or spread-eagle. Experimenting with various levels of a sub’s exposure, angles of their body and techniques for stimulations you can strengthen emotional connection between you and your partner, escape the boredom in your bedroom and discover new facets of your personality.
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