Tools and Equipment from Elin Harness that will Improve your Sex Life

From time to time, it’s useful for couples to incorporate some novelty into intimate life. Various tools and equipment can boost understanding of each other’s body, help you experience new sensations, and consequently have more intense pleasure. In this article, we will review the top 6 tools and equipment that will take your sex with a partner to a new level.

1. Leather Choker with Leash

Restraints like a leather choker with a leash allow you to experiment with control and obedience, making it either a part of the foreplay or a full-length scene to increase your partner’s desire. Wearing a collar can serve as a symbol of willingness to give in control to your partner, who can guide and direct you, using the leash. For many individuals, being led by the collar with a leash can evoke strong arousal. As they surrender their power and control, they experience feelings of pure liberation.

Leather chokers with leashes also allow for incorporating elements of playful training for the collared person aimed at improving discipline or fulfilling specific tasks. They can also serve to restrict freedom as a punishment method if you’re more into acting out scenarios involving a naughty partner and a guiding authoritative figure. Collars with leashes are essential for animal play when one person takes on the role of the puppet or other pet and the other acts as their owner.

2. Five-Point BDSM Leather Spreader Bar with Cuff Hooks

Using a five-point spreader bar with hooks for cuffs, you can enhance your restraint play and receive more options for sensory stimulation. You simply need to cuff your partner, placing cuffs around their wrists or ankles, and then connect them to hooks. This gear allows you to limit your partner’s movements, spreading the limbs and immobilizing them in a fixed position for better access to the intimate and erogenous areas, which means exploring new facets of pleasure. Thanks to five attachment points, you can easily alter the width between the limbs, customizing the bar to your needs.

When the body is in a fixed position, the person can experience heighten sensations and anticipation. Being in such an exposed state, your partner can also feel more vulnerable and dependent on your control. The restrained person relies entirely on their dominant in terms of their comfort, safety and the direction of the play. Additionally, spread position makes even the light touches and gentle caresses more stimulating and intense.

3. Set of Four Bed Restraints

This is the awesome tool for those who make first steps towards playing with restraints. They are suitable for couples who seek interesting options for their foreplay and those who want to get deeper into dominant-submissive relationships.

 These four bed restraints feature adjustable straps with D-rings strategically placed along their length, created to help you fix your partner in an immobilized position to a bed frame. D-rings can also be used as attachment points for hand and ankle cuffs, connectors, or bed legs. Being restrained with leather bed belts, the person can experience a sense of vulnerability, trust in the partner and anticipation of what happens next. When attached to the bed legs, the set of 4 bed restraints offer a stable anchor point for further experiment with bondage scenarios, including incorporating of wax, ice, blindfolds, fire, spanking and other forms of play. 

4. Set of Four Hitching Rings with Plates

This set is specially designed for securing restrains and suitable for fastening to both wood and metal. Using it, you can easily arrange your private area for BDSM games. Rings are mounted on a sturdy metal plate that can be bolted or screwed into various surfaces such as a wall, floor, or bed frame. As the rings are made of metal, they provide durability and reliability even when used frequently, regardless of tension and weight. With this set, you have more options for restrained positions for your partner, including standing position.

The set of four hitching rings allows you to create a secure anchor point for ropes, cuffs, chains, connectors and other kink gear, helping you customizable your playful scenarios. Using metal rings, you can be confident that they provide a secure connection during the restraint play.

5. Leather BDSM Blindfold

When covering your partner’s eyes with the blindfold, you make them anticipate what you have prepared for them. They become totally immersed into the sense of the unknown, which both excites and arouses. The ability to hear sounds without seeing what happens next acts as a powerful turn-on.

Blindfolds serve as perfect accessories for prelude, adding a good amount of novelty to your intimate interaction. A leather BDSM blindfold allows you to take your sensory play, such as light erotic massage, ice cube play or wax play, to a new level, as the person experiences the activity only when you start it.

The partner with a blindfold can experience each touch, sound, and sensation more intensely that leads to a heightened state of vulnerability and new facets of pleasure and intimacy. The leather itself offers a luxurious feeling without compromising on comfort.

6. BDSM Spanking Paddle Long Size

Spanking paddles are those accessories that help partners explore the thin line between pleasure and pain as they perfectly stimulate nerve endings in the skin.  When the paddle lands onto the skin, your partner experiences a range of sensations, ranging from a sharp, stinging feeling to a throbbing impact. You can experiment with the force and the type of gear. The spanking paddle in long size with an extended length allows you to impact a greater area on your partner’s body, as well as slowing for better control and accuracy.

Elongated paddles are ideal for couples who prefer precise and targeted play, involving a variety of impact ranging from light, teasing taps to deliberate smacks. This gear will help you increase the arousal and excitement during your role-play or prelude. Made of leather, it provides a comfortable grip for playing with various intensities and powers of strike.

Conclusion

BDSM equipment such as leather chokers with leashes, spreader bars, bed restraints, sets of hitching rings, blindfolds, spanking paddles can refresh your intimate life, add variety to your playing scenarios and get to know each other’s desire and fantasy better. Using various gear, you can heighten sensation and body reaction to touch, kiss, and caress that will make your prelude more promising and help you reach better satisfaction.

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