Top 10 Harness Gifts for Your Partner

Do you already feel the holiday vibe in the air? It’s time to start collecting gift ideas for your beloved partner. If you don't know where to start, begin with our article. Elin Harness' team has already prepared beautiful harness gifts for her and him that will help you leave the love of your life overwhelmed with emotions as well as make upcoming moments together more exciting. 

Top 5 Gift Ideas for Her 

Idea #1: Leather Lingerie Bondage Set 

If you’re looking for something to become a real pleasure for the eyes when worn by your beloved girlfriend, our bondage and lingerie set can absolutely meet your needs. Its minimal design is created to emphasize the natural curves without overwhelming the silhouette. Unlike regular lingerie sets, this one features not only adjustable bras with chains and panties with belts and buckles but also a stylish wide collar, two-strap leather belt, wrist and thigh cuffs with two connectors to attach them to the belt. All together, the set forms perfectly matching elements, available in six colors, including black, burgundy, red, white, as well as lacquered black and burgundy. 

The set provides many ways to use it — it will become a perfect option for private fun, photo shoots, performances or themed events. Your lady can also use specific elements of this set to pair them with casual clothes. For instance, she can pair the collar with a band T-shirt and jeans, or wear the belt with a high-waisted skirt and top.

Idea #2: Leather Lingerie

If you feel like thigh, wrist cuffs and collars with belts are too much for your girlfriend, start with leather lingerie featuring an adjustable bra and panties as a separate option. You can select standard matte leather pieces or lacquered versions. Both look appealing against bare skin. 

The bras are equipped with chains not only adding an interesting touch to the overall design but also providing reliable fixation. The panties feature belts and buckles allowing for quick length adjustment according to individual parameters. Although leather lingerie may not be suitable for everyday wear, it can serve as a key element for creating special romantic occasions. 

Idea #3: Harness with Front Lace-Up

Such a gift provides your lady with plenty of options to experiment with her style. Featuring a choker, belt, and garters with two adjustable connectors — all complemented with appealing lacing, this set works well for both private fun in the bedroom and everyday styling. 

The harness with front lace-up pairs well with skirts, tops, oversized shirts, sweaters, loose-fitting dresses, and tailored blazers where it helps define the waistline. The same goes for the choker, which she can wear with blouses, t-shirts, formal dresses and rock-, punk- or gothic-inspired outfits. 

Idea #4: Contour Harness 

This gift idea will win the hearts of ladies who appreciate delicate and elegant outfits. Featuring three pieces — open-bust top, belt and panties, the set offers multiple options to combine each element with various fetish and everyday outfits. 

The contour harness helps accentuate a woman's curves in all the right places. In addition to being worn just on the bare skin, this outfit also looks great when worn under jackets and blazers, over minimalist midi or maxi dresses of neutral colors, with hoodies, t-shirts, and over off-shoulder tops. Combined with those outfits, the open bust top featured in this set becomes a central piece, drawing attention to the waist and simply adding an interesting touch to casual looks. Idea #5: Latex Open Bust Bra and Open-Crotch Panties 

This latex lingerie set invites exploration and celebrates the beauty of a woman’s body. No wonder this gift idea is for the boldest ladies who are always eager for fun and confident showing off their cleavage. 

The body-hugging latex already highlights the best of a woman's features. But open design in all the right places takes the overall appeal to a new level. The half cups of the bra are equipped with underwire which supports breasts and helps them maintain an appealing shape, while thongs feature a convenient open cut for unrestricted access. 

Top 5 Gift Ideas for Him 

Idea #1: Restraint Set For Hot Unforgettable Night

This is actually a gift box, full of things designed to help you experience more dynamic and intense moments with your partner. Inside you can find wrist and ankle cuffs, an adjustable blindfold mask, a spanking paddle with ergonomic handle and embossed patterns — all handcrafted from genuine leather with neatly finished edges. The set also includes bed nylon straps for secure restraint of your partner. All these things are wrapped in a beautiful box to add an element of surprise. With this collection of things, you can experiment with teasing, sensual play, power and control, punishment and reward, moving from simple foreplay to full-scale dominance and submission. 

Idea #2: Blindfold Mask 

Covering your partner’s eyes with a leather blindfold, you immerse him in the unknown, making him anticipate what is to come. With limited sight, your lover will feel every touch, whisper and action more intensely. It allows you to turn a simple massage or wax play into an unforgettable experience increasing your partner’s vulnerability and arousal even from gentle touches.

You can use a blindfold both as an element of the foreplay and part of an erotic outfit to set the mood for longer games. As our blindfolds feature a soft lining and neatly finished edges, nothing will distract your partner keeping him focused on sensations of your touch rather than discomfort. 

Idea #3: Wrist and Ankle Cuffs Made From Strap Leather

A pair of wrist and ankle cuffs with a chain connector is the perfect gift idea for those who are just starting to explore the world of restraints and are looking for something easy to use. If your partner is interested in slightly restricted foreplay without going over the top, try them! Ankle and wrist cuffs provide new approaches to what you used to do. For instance, you can spice up your missionary position by shackling your partner’s hands and receiving more control over him while he is lying on his back. Or try a cowgirl position — cuff your partner to make him obedient and still, while you experiment with depth and angle. Cuffs can also help you experience new sensation during spooning or other positions where your partner lies on his back.

Idea #4: Men’s Chest Harness 

The combination of leather straps and buckles combined in a striking pattern across the chest can make your man both edgy and vulnerable. Equipped with O-rings and D-rings, the men's chest harness provides multiple options for attaching connectors, chains, or leashes. Whether your partner wears it for foreplay or as an erotic outfit, it creates a more immersive atmosphere for dominant-submissive vibes. If your lover enjoys acting as a sub, while you take a dominant role, this gift is a perfect match! For a complete look, we recommend pairing leather harnesses with masks, lingerie or latex garments. 

Idea #5: Straightjacket 

With a cotton straightjacket featuring adjustable straps with metal loops and sleeves, you can act out exciting foreplay scenes to warm up before the main part of your night or experiment with advanced bondage scenarios that include elements of medical or clinic-inspired play. If your partner is more into comfortable roleplay but likes extreme party outfits, this gift can also serve as a party costume to highlight your man’s bold side. 

Bonus Ideas

It’s not only the gift that matters, but also the way you wrap it. If you’re tired of messing with ribbons and paper, we’ve got the option that will save you time. You can wrap any of the chosen gifts in a special BDSM-inspired two-level gift box with built-in lighting, black ribbon closure, and 3D pop-up card featuring the dog mask and chains. It will bring any of your ideas to perfection while adding an element of surprise. 

If you’re interested in providing your partner with more freedom to choose a gift that he or she really needs and don’t want to risk choosing the wrong item, use our gift cards. 

Conclusion 

We hope our list of harness gift ideas for her and him has already inspired you. Whatever you choose, let your affection and sincerity come first. Let your love speak loudly through both deeds and words!