How to Select The Perfect New Year Gift for Yourself: Top 10 BDSM Items to Boost Your Mood and Pleasure

On the eve of the New Year, everyone is busy with gifts for relatives, loved ones, friends, colleagues, but how about selecting a gift for yourself?  And how about a gift that can boost your mood and expand your pleasure possibilities? Don’t overlook your own desires. And yes, it’s okay to delight yourself with pleasant things. Whether you wonder if it’s possible to buy something for yourself that can work well in various settings without losing its fetish vibe or you just run out of ideas, grab our list as an inspiration. 

Among our top 10 BDSM items you will definitely find a perfect gift idea for yourself!

 

Top 10 Items that You Can Order as BDSM New Year Gifts

 

What makes a perfect gift? It should be visually beautiful because we judge by what we see. It also should be high-quality as no one wants to be frustrated with the product in a week or so. What’s more it should be multi-functional, allowing you to use it in various settings, including your bedroom. Custom leather accessories and elegant restraints featured in our list absolutely meet all these criteria. 

1. Leather Waist Belt

This gift for yourself is very functional as you can use it as part of your everyday style. Additionally, you can add an interesting element to your special outfit if you’re visiting concerts, festivals or formal parties. You can combine the waist belt with a dress or bodysuit to create provocative flair. It can also look interesting paired with high-waisted trousers. BDSM belts can add interesting twists to sheer or mesh tops. Finally, you can use them in your intimate settings. The leather belt offers adjustable design with D-rings, allowing you to attach it to various connectors and experiment with restricted movements. They can feature from two to four adjustable straps in genuine matte, lacquered or vegan leather. As our belts are available in multiple colors, from classic black to bold and passionate red or romantic pink, you can experiment with color palettes in your outfits depending on what vibe you would like to create.

2. Everyday Choker

This is a really universal accessory that can be used as jewelry boosting your everyday outfit, as part of an alternative style with an edgy vibe and an important element of BDSM role-play.  Decorated with spikes, rings, and buckles, it catches attention, highlights your neckline, adds texture, and makes your image far from being boring. Chokers pair well with off-the-shoulder dresses, ripped or skinny jeans, blouses, band tees, biker jackets. To ignite the desire in your partner, you can pair it with lace, leather or latex lingerie. There are limitless options, and it’s up to you to decide how to benefit from them.

3. Leather Mask

What is fascinating about the masks is their ability to help you step into a fictional character’s shoes. Masks conceal your personality and thus help you switch your mindset from troubles. Masks add interesting twists to cosplay, masquerade and erotic costumes. Within BDSM settings, cat and rabbit masks hold a reputation as bestsellers. Depending on their design, they offer full coverage of the face or cover half of it, creating intrigue. Leather BDSM masks pair well with lace, silk lingerie, dresses, bodysuits, latex dominatrix outfits, and leather harnesses.

4. Soy Wax Candle

If creating an atmosphere matters to you no less than selecting a proper outfit, then it’s your perfect gift. You can use it not only as an element of decorations or relaxation. Soy wax is characterized by its lower melting point compared to traditional paraffin wax, which makes these candles a popular choice in BDSM play. When you incorporate them for temperature play, they don’t harm your partner’s skin. Soy wax cools quickly, so when it lends on the skin, it can’t create burns. Soy wax is also easy to clean, as it peels off the skin.  A soy wax candle offer more possibilities for unforgettable sensory, emotional, and visual stimulation.

5. Wrist Cuffs with Horseshoe Accessories

Beautiful design of these cuffs make them both appealing restraint gear and elements of your image. Thanks to a balanced and visually impressive duo of black leather and silver hardware in a horseshoe shape, they perfectly function as elegant bracelets, delicately embracing wrists. Wrist cuffs with horseshoe accessories can add interesting touches to your edgy outfit for social gatherings, BDSM-themed parties, or personal events. When not used for hanging out, they can be used to boost your romantic and dominant outfit for upcoming fun with the partner.

6. Leather Garters

Decorated with buckles, rings, and studs they can bring a strong vibe of rebellion to your outfit. You can wear these stylish leather accessories around the thighs as standalone pieces or pair them with other elements of a harness set. Lacquered leather hip cuffs can take your dominatrix style within a BDSM setting to a new level when worn with latex or leather lingerie, skirts, or shorts. Together with these outfits they create daring and fashionable looks. You can also incorporate clips for stockings or attachments for BDSM play to experience new sensations and dynamics. Leather garters are what you need if you like to stand out during nights out with a clear sense of confidence and individuality.

7. Full Bondage Set

What can function better than a full set of interesting things that can bring your experience to a new level? Full leather bondage sets typically include wrist and ankle cuffs, garters, a belt, a collar with a leash, and connectors. Literally, such bundles offer everything you need to add dynamic to your upcoming date or novelty to your interaction with a loved one. You can create the scenario involving all pieces or use a few of them as standalone accessories. The key benefit of the set is a full collection of items, matching in colors, styles, and hardware that help you create a well-balanced setting or image. If you opt for something unique, check our black and white full harness set.

8. Premium Latex and Leather Set

The combination of leather and latex lacks nothing to create an avant-garde fetish aesthetic. A shiny latex texture contrasts beautifully with the matte finish of leather, making the combination worthy of many compliments. Wearing a latex bodysuit and stockings you can emphasize your beautiful silhouette, while by adding a lacquered leather belt, thigh cuffs, wrist cuffs, and a choker you can create bold and edgy vibes with a touch of elegance. You can wear all elements of this latex and leather set, or use a few of them for interesting layering. This gift allows you to enjoy multi-purposed collections perfect for hanging out in a club, private play, or daring photoshoots.

9. Bed Restraints

This gift will add spice to your favorite sex positions, since you can limit your partner’s movement and enjoy more options of how to dominate them. Bed restraints feature straps, which you can install beneath the mattress. Lobster carabiners provide you with an easy way to attach D-rings of cuffs and thus immobilize your partner for further control over their movements and pleasure. With your partner’s hands restricted with bed restraints, you can do what you want, whether it’s teasing, sensory deprivation, spanking or wax play. You can also enhance your cowgirl sex position, allowing your partner a bit more freedom as they can set their own rhythm, angle, and depth of penetration.

10. Leather Spreader Bar with Hooks

This is a perfect idea for beginners who’ve just started to experiment with restraints. Spreader bars look like the wooden base of an elongated shape covered with genuine leather and equipped with hooks for cuffs. Using this gear, you can go above what standard restraints typically offer. You can vary your positions and enjoy more power over your partner as spreader bars effectively hold their limbs apart, providing more opportunities for heightened sensations. When your partners can’t use their hands, you can tease them, touch them in those places they anticipate or stimulate them with your mouth or sex toys. Spreader bars may differ in design, offering various numbers of attachment points, from three to five. The more hooks, the more options you have for playing with the width between the limbs and consequently dynamic of your game.

Conclusion

We hope our list of top 10 BDSM gift ideas for yourself has provided you with a fresh vision of what can help you enjoy your body even more, as well as add a novelty to your intimate life.

Recently we have also shared the list of the best Christmas gifts for her and him.

You can find even more items working as fetish and erotic gifts among collections of BDSM restraints.